Having a flirty boss is somewhere related to sexual harassment and juvenile hormonal awkwardness. Having a flirty boss who doesn’t make any direct advances, can be a tricky situation to handle. This situation should be handled with lot of care and precaution. When you come to know that your boss is flirting around with you, you cannot directly go and complain to his boss that he was sexually harassing you just because he was smiling at you in a different manner.
Some bosses are quite cunning. They will never give you a clear idea about their intentions that they are flirting around with you, so that you will not get a chance to complain about them. One has to handle this situation by his own way. There are some of the tips one can follow to quite his flirting boss without getting himself into any trouble or embarrassment in this entire process.
Firstly, there should always be a direct eye to eye contact with the boss while talking to him especially in a situation when he is giving any inappropriate gesture. There is always a chance that the boss approaches to you whenever you are indulged in some of your work or doing something on the computer screen. He feels that by doing this you might not come to know about his intensions by directly looking at his face. So always look directly into his eyes during a conversation so that he knows that you know exactly what is going around.
Secondly, whenever you talk, be loud at your voice, decisions and requests. You do not have to always yell and make an issue about anything. Always be professional with your flirty boss. Do not smile unnecessarily to him or make any unwanted conversation with him like how you make with your following colleges. Do not even give him a slightest reason to think that you want to get overfriendly with him.
You should always keep all your conversations to the point, not even giving him a single chance to start his flirty advances. Be clear to him that even if anything happens you will never ever start an unprofessional relationship with him.
Always be careful with what body posture you are depicting in front of your boss. Always sit straight and bend down like a lady without revealing any of your body parts. Do not stretch or relax too much. Men are always looking for some or the other reasons to stare at women. Some gestures which are absolutely normal for a woman will be extremely enticing for a men. Never give your flirty boss any false message by your gestures that you want to flirt with him.
Always be surrounded by group of people and always be firm and serious in all your decisions. Be surrounded by those individuals whose presence will deter your boss from any flirtation gestures. Always have the right attitude so that he knows when to back off.
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