The ingredients of love are like a good soup. Love is made of many ingredients that blend just right. It’s believed that strong chemistry is vital for any intimate relationship. It is also believe that it’s the magic ingredient for all other areas of your life.
Love is such a powerful human emotion that experts are constantly studying it. They’ve discovered that love has many qualities to be proven as long and lasting. Some of the qualities are:
Friendship: If you cannot rely on the person you love, then that person is not worthy of your love. And if your partner cannot count on you, you are not in an everlasting love relationship. Friendship means being able to say anything to your partner because you have that ease of “best buddies.” Any good partnership includes the same love you have for a best friend.
Respect: You should always respect yourself before you expect the person in front of you to respect you. If you respect your partner just the way they are without wanting any changes in them, then this is a good sign of a good relationship. Respect can diminish with time. So whether it increases or decreases depends all on you.
Communication: It makes you feel safe in a relationship when you have an open communication with your partner. A relationship should be such in which you can talk any damn thing with your partner. Good communication can unleash strong creative energy between you and your partner. When you speak everything with your partner on the daily basis, it also helps you to relieve a large chunk of stress. Everyday just once let your partner know what you mean to them and always share all your dreams, desires, needs etc with your partner because they should know each and everything what’s going on your mind.
Commitment: It is a very important ingredient which says that no matter whatever comes in life, any up’s and down’s, you will always be by the side of your partner being his/her strength. Also it says that you will never leave your partner at any circumstances.
Closeness: It’s mainly a bond that develops when you share thoughts and feelings that you don’t share with anyone else. When you have this feeling of closeness with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you feel supported, cared for, understood, and accepted for who you are. Trust plays a major role in this.
Romantic love is mainly a combination of attraction and intimacy. Many relationships mainly start from initial attraction (i.e.) either a crush or love at first sight and then they evolve towards intimacy. It all happens that when they start feeling that their intimacy in friendship starts changing into attraction and they suddenly start feeling that they are more than just
If we want to be in healthy relationships, we need to accept people as they are and welcome them to be our partners in the journey of life without needing them to actually do the travel .
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